Q&A: Overstepping (aka "staying in our lane")

Today’s question is from Cheryl, who asks:

What self reflection questions to ask or ways to ensure as a stepmom, I don’t overstep? The things I do seem just like normal care and love that I would do for any of the kids in my family, not just kids that came out of my vagina.

I keep hearing, “stay in your lane”, but imho my lane is what my husband and I mak…